Serious dates can be identified by some notable signs. These depend on time, attention, communication and feel between two persons.
Just hanging out when conditions are fair and going off when conditions go bitter is not a good sign of serious dates.
Your partner will never prefer to look and play with the phone or watch on a serious date. They pay a lot of attention to your words, gestures, and actions and enjoy your presence.
It takes a lot of time, talk and attention to make serious dates into a strong relationship. Serious dates can be taken as stepping stones to make relationship long lasting.
A serious date will give you your partner’s undivided attention while they are with you. They will be engaged with you, interested in what you are saying and this will be shown in their body language, good eye contact, open posture and a relaxed, unhurried attitude.
The way they interact with you will make you feel like they are enjoying your company and time will tend to slip by very quickly when you are together. A major part of communication in a date may be nonverbal.
Obviously, some people are very nervous in the initial meetings and these signs aren’t immediately apparent but they should develop over time.
If after half a dozen dates they don’t seem to have remembered anything you have told them previously, are always hasty to be somewhere else or inattentive then you can safely assume they are not serious.
You will know when you have been on a date with someone you are serious about, and who is serious about you because you can feel a warm glow inside.
You will feel that you have brought some light and joy into another person’s life and that will make you feel really good about yourself and it will be an experience you want to repeat.
Someone being serious about you can rejoice if you are serious about them too. Actions speak more than words. Some may send romantic emails and always chatter sweet nothings on phone but the time you spend together and serious feelings you have with each other will be more considerable in serious dates.